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Leveraging Your Unconscious to
Achieve Your Goals
It’s highly likely that
you have heard or read about the importance of setting goals.
In fact, it’s pretty commonly accepted that setting goals will
increase your odds of actually achieving the goal. The
American Society for Training and Development
(ASTD) reports the following:
- Of people who consciously decide to set a
goal, 25% achieve their goal.
- Of people who decide when they will do it,
40% achieve their goal.
- Of people who plan how they will do it, 50%
achieve their goal.
- Of people who commit to someone else they
will do it, 65% achieve their goal.
Why does this happen?
It all relates to how our brain works.
The human brain is capable of receiving
billions of bits of information, much more than we could ever
possibly use or deal with.
In fact, research has shown that our nervous system
can only “handle” seven, plus or minus 2 “chunks” of information, or
about 128 bits.
The Reticular
Activating System (RAS) in our brain unconsciously filters through
all these pieces of information and decides which messages will
receive our top priority and full attention.
By setting goals, we are able to
focus our brain and our attention on a particular area to the
exclusion of other thoughts and activities.
For example, a busy mom
gets bombarded with numerous situations, problems, questions, and
demands during the course of a day. Yet most moms are unconsciously
able to prioritize so that the most important tasks get immediate
attention.
When
you set goals, especially after committing them to writing, the
brain has a specific subject or task brought to the forefront.
When you repeatedly read, think about, and
refine a goal, you focus your brain and
unconsciously become aware of related matters
and needed resources which are important in the realization of the
goal.
Setting personal goals creates
awareness so that you suddenly start to notice things related to the
goal that you might have overlooked or not given any attention to if
your goal was not in place.
To quote Anthony Robbins in his
book "Awaken the Giant Within",
page 288: "This shift in mental posture aligns you more precisely
with your goals. Once you decide that something is a priority, you
give it tremendous emotional intensity,
and by continually focusing on it, any resource that supports its
attainment will eventually become clear.
Therefore, it’s not crucial to understand
exactly HOW you'll achieve your goals when you first set them. Trust
that your RAS will point out what you need to know along the way."
Use the RESULT
formula to set your goals and ensure your success:
R.
Make your goal
realistic,
and a challenge
E.
What
evidence will you have when you have
achieved the goal?
S.
Make your goal
straightforward and concise
U.
Unlimited possibilities;
commitment comes before the resources
L.
Create a
Life Picture of how it will
be when you achieve the goal
T.
Vision your
goal complete at a specific time
As you think about the goals you are committed to
achieving on your journey to wellness, use the format below:
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It is now
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And I am/I have
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(evidence)
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Think about what’s most important
for you to create around your health.
How will it feel?
Smell?
Look?
How will you know when you’ve achieved it (your
evidence)?
Where will you be?
What will you be doing?
Write 2 – 3 sentences that describe exactly
what will be going on in your life and how you will know that you
have achieved your goal.
Example:
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It is now
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April 1, 2008
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And I am/I have
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getting dressed to go dancing with my
husband, one of the many activities I’ve added to my active
lifestyle. I’m in my closet, slipping into the size 6
dress that looks fabulous on me. I feel strong,
beautiful and sexy every day.
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Use the worksheet below to write
your goals for 2008.
Then simply place the goals in a place where you can
refer to them occasionally and let your unconscious do the work!
My Health Goals
Name:__________________________
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